Well, that is a great success. Our first group managed to hit the magical 90-day barrier. But more than that as a mixed addiction group, we hit the target together. We had men who were suffering from porn addiction, media addiction and overweight. Some men had multiple goals. Every single man reached at least 1 of their goals. Most of them did reach all of their goals.
Just imagine that. A man who suffered from a massive porn addiction did manage with this group to stay more than 90 days without porn consumption, masturbation and orgasm. Hey disclosed to us that he now feels much more clear-headed and for the first time of his life free.
But not all always went good. Some men did not reach all of their goals or had reset. What does that mean? Some men managed to achieve, let’s say weight loss and spent the whole time without having to masturbate. But they couldn’t stay all the time without porn.
For them, that was already a great success. But this group did achieve even more. Without the concept of guilt and shame, they could admit towards the group that they had resets regarding porn. Which was probably the first time they could share that they had a “weak” moment. We do accept that and encourage them to share and own this experience. Can you imagine how good it feels to be welcome with that, to encounter no judgement?
But even more: Most of these men did manage to fight their addictions those 90 days and keep going for more. That means they achieved a considerable amount of addiction-free days and had much less resets than before.
This program does not offer to heal you from addiction. It does empower yourself to be your own medicine and encourages you to feel and see who you are, now.
The Picture is from Klimkin. Thank you! Beautiful depth of field.